A personal question . . .

[dunwerkin]

In this month's SAGA mag. a 71 year old lady author intimated that her sex life ended in her sixties. As an unattached, reasonably attractive, fit and active lady aged 63 I was wondering if mine finished when an old friend 'visited' two years ago ?!! Would any single, OAP like to give me an idea of when they last enjoyed a sexual encounter - and do they think that it might have been the last one?

[Doc Spock]

Maybe you should change your name to "dunferkin"

just a thought.

[dunwerkin]

Well done Doc Spock. Loved your suggestion. Mind if I use it?

I am surprised to have received so little feedback - either empathetic or antagonistic. Perhaps its too near the truth to be comfortable?

[EngTeach]

Good one Spock.

[burnhal]

Perhaps this can be approached from the other direction if no-one is going to answer? I am 52 so not in a position to answer this. But maybe from your point of view can you tell us if the 'urge' is still there at age 63?

[milliezoe]

Am 62 and still active and the urge is as strong as it ever was not looking to throw the towel in yet !!!!

[dunwerkin]

Dear Burnhal. Oh the urge is alive and well thank you for asking !!

Milliezoe. I wasn't planning to throw in the towel either! If you (or anyone) is in a relationship the question doesn't apply. Its only when you haven't got someone special in your life that the question raises its ugly head.

I think the old adage of "a woman needs a relationship - a man just needs a place" might apply here. No offence guys - just being pragmatic based on my knowledge of some men in my life !!