Single mums

[helliebobs]

Really trying not to generalise here but seriously, do all blokes think single mums are an easy lay or something? After getting chatted up by some skeg in a pub near me a few weeks ago (he seemed to think I should be thankful) my next door neighbour came round last night to offer his services. Bearing in mind that I only moved in at the beginning of the month and the first weekend I was there I fell out with him and his mum - we've now made up and he knocked on my door last night, drunk and trying to get into my pants. So come on, be honest, should I take him up on the offer because frankly I should be grateful for any offers I get now that I'm a sad 20 something single mum? Or should I hold out for someone who actually likes me? :)

[mrs_overall]

I've not been a single mum but I had a youthful first marriage which ended in divorce. Before the ink was dry on the divorce papers I had all sorts of sleazebags crawling out of the woodwork, including my ex's 2 best friends, all offering their "services".
Tell them to get lost. You're a lovely person who is worth more than that. They're just sad chancers who should be pitied.

[Bewlay Bros]

I think drunk men hit on anybody don't they?

I think your best bet is to find a single dad. Whther he has custody or not (likely and statistically not) but at least he will understand the role of parenting to an extent.

[skyep]

hellie - Jeez, that's made me so mad!!! Prat's, the worlds full of them! What's a sad 20 something??? I'm 49 and if I found myself single for whatever reason, I'd be very choosy indeed! Tell them to sod off, you are better than that! xxx

[helliebobs]

wow, now I really want to shag you 3ight8ball :)

[Hand Job]

I like MILFS and im free at the weekend.

Hope this helps

[Hellyon]

I think it may be single women full stop Hellie. I was once going to an interview and my car broke down so I borrowed a work colleagues Triumph Spitfire - When I returned it he tried to get in my pants and when I said no he said 'But I let you borrow my car!'

It doesn't change when you get married, Mr H still thinks doing the vacuuming is foreplay lol!

[rugeleyboy]

about a boy....... hugh grant. watch this film, it explains everything about the "single mother"!!......... i love em!!

[skyep]

lol at hellyon!!

[helliebobs]

Lol, RB I still remember what you said to me on MSN about the subject , I won't repeat it here though ;)

[MONTCRIEFF49]

heli
you are worth more than that
slime ball your name would be mud allover wher you
live

he doesnt seem to have any respect for you if he coms round drunk

tell him to face you on the sober side

as young as you are keep your dignity
my hats off to you been a single mum
i did it for years and now the dad bk on the scene trying to do the same if he wants me now why didnt he stay
wen my kids r growing he re married
i didnt but hav a partner
i divorced him in 1982 my kids r now 30 28 24
and he comes bk in 2006 eh xx

[rugeleyboy]

oh dear , i do apologise, sometimes i forget myself? ;�)

[rug muncher]

Have you ever dpone it with a woman?

[rugeleyboy]

looks like I'm gonna get munched!!

[helliebobs]

Ruge you never forget yourself, you're like that all the time!!

[mrs_overall]

helliebobs, have a look at the post about Marmite in Food & Drink, page 2. Your friend Rugeleyboy has a perversion I've never heard of before! :)

[Goodsoulette]

I'm a single mum and although it feels like you are gonna be sat around on the shelf gathering dust, think abut the positives HEllibobs. Without taking anything you can get, you are probably gonna get a few more first kisses before you find the one, and first kisses are all lush. A few more weird dates, and then someone is going to fall in love with you and your little'un.

Your neighbour sounds like a wally but maybe he genuinely likes you. As for the guy in the pub, he'd have done that whether you were a Mum or not.

[whiskeysheri]

Hello, gorgeous!

What a pig. I wonder if we could have some fun with him when I come and see you... ;o) And, no, you shouldn't "settle" for anything but the best.

"Sometimes"?, ruge?

[helliebobs]

Lmao Mrs O thanks for the tip off, doesn't surprise me at all but cheese and marmite is divine.
Thanks everyone for the tips, esp goodsy :) - my post comes across like i'm quite bitter and twisted but i'm not and I don't really want a man at the moment and I'm too much hard work anyway:)
Goodsy the guy in the pub didn't make his move until he found out I was on my own then his eyes were practically on stalks. As for the guy next door, he listens to **** music and I told him so :) I can't shag a guy who's into **** music is that really shallow of me?