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ive tried talking to them, i sat them down at a family dinner and explained that i would happily have the family ignore me if it meant they didnt take their misdirected rage out on my mum, well it went kind of well however it was a somewhat hollow victory, basically they agreed to not take it out on my mu and said they were just trying to make sure i didnt make a huge mistake by killing people and wasting gods gift of life to me, which at the end of the day was alot more than i expected, however i did make it clear that this was a family only event as the things i had to say were personal however my uncle who seems to run my family decided to bring a friend, who decided to pass judgement on me and make his opinion heard so i did the adult thing and took him outside and punched him in the face i think it was a combination of the solider in me and years of abuse from my family, so anyway the long and short of it is that they are now leaving my mum alone but have redoubled their efforts on me and i must admit some advice on how to get them to leave me alone would be helpful