How do you mend a broken heart?

[jaydj]

Having a nightmare trying to get over my ex g/f
not helped by the fact she still texts me and also says to my face she still has feelings for me although she is with someone else...
yes i know times a great healer and all that but i have to work with her too!
thanks for the help guys

[terambulan]

Be glad ur broken with her especially as she texts you while in another relationship......u wouldn't want that for yourself?

Change ur phone number and break off completely.....it's the only way to move on and begin with another more worthwhile.

[daisycup]

Totally agree with Terambulan. It's hard at the moment... but you'll be glad your not with her when you look back. Hard working with her as well... do you work closely with her? Is there a way that you could move at all?

[Postdog]

Trigger has the right idea, though if that isn't you, just look elsewhere and move on - when you have someone else to think of feelings for the ex will go on the back burner. You won't forget, you just won't care either.

[torn-in-two]

Well do you have any strong feelings for your ex still anymore? That what I found to be the hardest part for trying to get over My Ex...

I'm stilling finding it impossible no matter what he does or says to be good or bad because of the fact I still have strong feelings for him...

I agree with changing your number and I love triggers idea, bu also as postdog has said... If its not for you it won't help at all..

If your trying to get over her for certain try go out with a few friends and enjoy yourself... Doing anything to keep your mind off her will help, Try not go places or keep things that will remind you of her.

Gud luck x.x.x

[jaydj]

Yeah i do still have strong feelings for her still, thats why its so hard
Thank you all for your help so far

[Kefalonia]

She's messing with you, pal. Making sure you're still on the hook just in case this other bloke and her fall out. Tell her to sod off - and yes, change your number - and your job (or at least your department) if you can. She's a bitch.

[cab]

It must be a nightmare because you work together as well.
She has moved on and it is true she is keeping you hanging on and is enjoying having the control, the only way forward for your pride is to pretend you have moved on too and found someone else and she will change,

[jaydj]

Thanks again people, your advice does help
Im trying to move on but take the last few days as example..
Friday she says for me to come outside for a cig and while we are alone tells me that she loves me and even starts to cry....I ask her again if she wants to get back with me and she say again that she dosnt know!
So my hope are up but then monday she turns up with her new boyfriend!!!!....My heart just sank again
Bloody nitemare.....anyway thanks again people

[Bonehedchico]

ditch the bitch!


http://www.brokenheartsclub.com/

for some weird reason other people are interested in your woeful tale.






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[Mr k]

Hi jay
Try reading these post and take note of the advice...

http://uk.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/138_ dating_advice.html

[ceejn]

Shes playing with you.I know it'll be hard but ignore her completely.After you've done it the 1st time it becomes easier .Eventually you'll see through her and see her for what she is.