Hi pinkbunny, i'm sorry to hear about your baby.
I was born with holes in my heart and had to have several operations to correct the problem, and as heartbreaking as it was at the time for my mother ,it just had to be done or I wouldn't be here to tell the tell today! I'm very greateful that I don't actually remember all of the operations i had!
I now have a beautiful baby girl of my own and cant even begin to imagine how it must feel to watch your little one suffering.
Good luck to you and baby pinkbunny, i hope she makes a speedy recovery and is better soon!!
Take care
K8 & Nancy.xxx