The other women in your children lives that are not there mother

[crazymad]

How do you react when the father of your girls let his new girlfriend take charge in everything your girls do. Like make the decission when your 7 year could wear a sports bra when you disapprove. Or when she want to displine them in way you don't approve of it. How do you react when she makes the children belive that there mother don't love them cause she doesn't call them when there with there father, or she makes them think I don't care for them cause I don't buy them a toy every time I take them into the store

[londonlover2010]

i am in the excact situation and i keep my cool which is very very hard to do. my daughter is 6 and my ex's partner is a total cow and he lets her be. i have explained that if it keeps up i will stop my daughter from going there, not only that but they are now sending up instructions on how to bring her up. she has no children of her own and hasn't a clue. she will give up eventually she is just trying to stir it up keep strong