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fathers and contact via courts
Hello all
I need some advise
I have two daughter's age 7 and 5 . I am now divorced from the father and the kids live with me.
Their father used to see the girls at the weekends. Until one weekend the 7-year-old stated saying she did not want to go I told her she had 2 as he was their father. Weekend after she refused point blank kicking and screaming. so asked my ex husband to come round and talk to her she refused and so did the 5 year old
He took out on me and beat me up (he has been found guilty of ABH)
From that day august last year he has not seen the kids but he is fighting me for contact.
Cafcass was involved and a few weeks before the kids was to be interviewed they come out with my ex had been touching them�.called the police kids was interviewed etc but CPS would not run with it as the kids was to young to be put on the stand!
Now child servers are involved because Cafcass won't touch this case�.
I have just got the kids counseling which they start Monday..
My ex is still fighting me for the kids the kids have told child services they never want to see him again they have told the school the same .
But the father is trying to say he never hit me! And I'm tuning them against him which is not true
So child services are doing a report for the courts now.
Has anybody been though this and what will the likely out come?
I'm worrying myself sick about this because I'm so scared so judge will say they have to go to see him even if its supervised and I know the girls don't want that
His solicitor is so confidant he will get to see the girls he wont even give them there stuff back.
I have a solicitor and he says that he has no chance but is he just saying that because he is getting paid a fortune from me for this matter
If he wins I feel like I have let my girls down once again all I want is to make them happy.
I need some advise
I have two daughter's age 7 and 5 . I am now divorced from the father and the kids live with me.
Their father used to see the girls at the weekends. Until one weekend the 7-year-old stated saying she did not want to go I told her she had 2 as he was their father. Weekend after she refused point blank kicking and screaming. so asked my ex husband to come round and talk to her she refused and so did the 5 year old
He took out on me and beat me up (he has been found guilty of ABH)
From that day august last year he has not seen the kids but he is fighting me for contact.
Cafcass was involved and a few weeks before the kids was to be interviewed they come out with my ex had been touching them�.called the police kids was interviewed etc but CPS would not run with it as the kids was to young to be put on the stand!
Now child servers are involved because Cafcass won't touch this case�.
I have just got the kids counseling which they start Monday..
My ex is still fighting me for the kids the kids have told child services they never want to see him again they have told the school the same .
But the father is trying to say he never hit me! And I'm tuning them against him which is not true
So child services are doing a report for the courts now.
Has anybody been though this and what will the likely out come?
I'm worrying myself sick about this because I'm so scared so judge will say they have to go to see him even if its supervised and I know the girls don't want that
His solicitor is so confidant he will get to see the girls he wont even give them there stuff back.
I have a solicitor and he says that he has no chance but is he just saying that because he is getting paid a fortune from me for this matter
If he wins I feel like I have let my girls down once again all I want is to make them happy.
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