tell them to sod off and have a peaceful life not speaking to them. they have no legal rights and are just trying to scare you into letting them see the kids. personally, if they were that awful, i wouldn't want them seeing mine! i haven't spoken to my family or in-laws for about 15 years. it is quiet, peaceful and life is no longer one big argument or drama. my son who is now 15 has not missed out on anything as he is far better off without all the psycho/unstable people in my family upsetting him. you are 25 - old enough and silly enough to take care of yourself and your own. grow a pair and tell them all to get stuffed! ahhh...peace and quiet x