Housekeeping from 18yr old

[bestmum]

We are on benefits due to medical problems. My daughter has just finished a job and is now on JSA. She has never paid us any keep before, but since her circumstances have changed we know are 76.00per month worse off. How much should she contribute to the home. We rent and have the usual bills to pay. Any ideas would be appreciated. TIA

[bestmum]

yur right danchip but i feel like a bad mum when i buy stuff for the 13yr old and 18yr has got nothing!!!

[lotsafun]

hiya bestmum, i would think it more than reasonable to ask her to make up the loss of £76.00 pm, if i was in her position i think im onto a winner with that offer i mean whats the alternative......moving out???????? also JSA is about £200 a month isnt it? then why should she just be pocketing that to do what she pleases with when you and your partner are struggling.
I hope im not coming across as mean hearted but ive been in your daughters situation before but regardless of this i always paid my way in my parents house, i was getting money so therefore i helped out

[McMouse]

At least she's trying to get work and not taking the easy route of pregnancy and benefits.

[bestmum]

i agree lotsafun i was made to contribute when i was her age and it didnt do me any harm.Also McMouse i am very glad she isn't going down the pregnancy route some of her friends have done this. I know she is looking every day for a job, but she has to pay her way. thanks to everyone for their input.

[society]

"i think you should change your username! "

LOL @ ^^^

[zzxxee]

maybe you could ask her to pay a bill e.g if you have gas and electic meters she can top them up every week