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Why would my ex want to meet up?
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Me and my ex split up last June. We had been together for 5 years. He told my friends when they ever mentioned me that he didnt want to know about me as it upset him. Anyways, i have some of his stuff still and i texted him to say i have it and shall i post it to him? He said why not meet up for a meal and i can hand it over and we can catch up?
I said ok and that day was meant to be today. I ended up getting caught at work late so couldnt make it. I texted him to say it was probably for the best we didnt meet up anyways. When he asked why i said "because i still love you"
He said "well. its up to you. i dont want to complicate things for you. but i dont want to never see you again" So i said i would meet up tonight for a drink later on. He said he was too busy himself so i said "ah lets just leave it, ill mail your items and have a nice life" I wasnt being funny. Just to the point.
He messaged me back saying "dont be like that, come out thursday for a meal im free all day?"
I dont get why he wants to meet for a meal? Surely if he just wanted his items back we'd just meet in a carpark and that would be that. Why does he want to catch up? Surely if he still felt something for me still he would have told me by now? Im so confused....
I said ok and that day was meant to be today. I ended up getting caught at work late so couldnt make it. I texted him to say it was probably for the best we didnt meet up anyways. When he asked why i said "because i still love you"
He said "well. its up to you. i dont want to complicate things for you. but i dont want to never see you again" So i said i would meet up tonight for a drink later on. He said he was too busy himself so i said "ah lets just leave it, ill mail your items and have a nice life" I wasnt being funny. Just to the point.
He messaged me back saying "dont be like that, come out thursday for a meal im free all day?"
I dont get why he wants to meet for a meal? Surely if he just wanted his items back we'd just meet in a carpark and that would be that. Why does he want to catch up? Surely if he still felt something for me still he would have told me by now? Im so confused....
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He is messing you around, please just cut the ties and leave it in the past, you will only get hurt again, been in a very similar situation where my ex kept arranging to meet up for a meal then cancelling last minute, he knew how I felt about him all the time, I wish I had never let my emotions get in the way, when we did finally meet it was for his personal financial gain, turned out he needed my signature to cash in a joint policy. He text me after we met to say 'Thanks for meeting, I know it was difficult for you' - cheeky patronising devil !
see this is the thing. i want to be with him. i just dont get why he wants to meet all of a sudden? and when i say no i cant make it he says please try to. people might say to that "he might want to tell you he wants you back" but surely he would have done it by now been 8 months! or he would have texted me by now. i just dont get why hes so bothered x
Ive had similar purple. Although he didnt ask me for any money its pretty much always for selfish reasons. I split up with my ex the same time as you Lou and finally told him where to stick it once and for all a couple of weeks ago after realising every time he wanted to meet it was all just about him. Have felt a million times better since now i can focus on other things without having to think about him. Tell him to do one.
