We've just bought a holiday home...and a brand new BBQ to go with it. Never had any success with bbq's in the past so also bought a book on how to do it properly and with some great recipes. Well, what a difference, am now a convert, have just had our second, very lovely BBQ :)
My only stipulation was that he did it all...all the outside stuff like like setting it up, lighting it, timing food, cleaning the whole thing afterwards, completely his domain. In the past it's been me that did it all and it just made tons more work for me carting food around, cooking the stuff, backwards and forwards to the house, etc., so in the end i refused to do them and we've not had a BBQ for many, many years.
Didn't ever think I'd say it, but I really enjoy bbq's now, sitting in the shade glass of wine in hand, lovely :)