Put the shredded cabbage in a dish with some water and white wine, sprinkle with some Chinese 5 spice, a little my brown sugar and bake in the oven, keeping an eye on it not getting too dry (add a bit more water).
I recall my Mother chopping cabbage and then boiling it for a bit longer than necessary and they tipping it in a colander before 'chopping' it with a fine edged saucer.
It took me a while to regain my interest in cabbage.
Carole, I might try your five spice suggestion but use rice wine in place of the white wine. I have some pork that needs cooking so I could do something Chinese with that.
I've never cooked it so don't know if it takes a lot of cooking but I might chuck it in the wok (finely shredded) with some toasted seasame oil, a couple of star anise, maybe a sliced red chilli and some hoisin sauce.
My favourite is a Scandinavian recipe for sweet-sour red cabbage...it has apple, onion, wine vinegar, brown sugar, sultanas and caraway seeds as well as the shredded red cabbage. Takes over an hour on the stove on very low heat.
How about red cabbage with apricots and balsamic vinegar? Sounds like a cold dish but it's a cooked one. I confess I've never made it but it does appeal to me.
I do cabbage..not red...in cheese sauce with loads of nutmeg on top. I like the sound of ummmms with raisins and cream.
There's a lovely stir fried one of Ainsley Harriotts with red wine and apples which is delicious and he serves it with duck in the meals in minutes book?
I'm with OG on this... and I'm a vegetarian. Red cabbage is only fit for the bin. Disgusting stuff. I've no doubt there must be a recipe somewhere that can make it taste edible. I just haven't come across it yet.
Personally I'd chop the stuff and then put it on the compost heap..
..But my family is happy to eat it when I shred it, add finely chopped bacon, garlic and finely chopped onion and saute it in a bit of Worcestershire sauce as as side dish to a meal.
Good luck.