I'm guessing a man thing although some women will insist on the right to take part I am sure. I first thought I must have the date wrong... How people can be so stupid is beyond me. There is also all the negative connection to slapping, ranging from slapping children, to partner abuse, the slap of the hysterical or shocked person, the high camp ' how dare you'slap, the movie soap after a kiss, None of these speak of a fair battle between equals so how they think turning it into a contest will change that. I despair of humanity sometimes, but sadly somehow I am not that surprised.