Fat and single

[pigeon toes]

Not really a question, but can anyone try and cheer me up please, i'm feeling really fat and depressed. Im putting on weight so much (iv even been advised to go to the doctor about it) and im just feeling really down, being single doesn't help either cos i feel like i can't get a bloke cos i'm fat! Please make me smile!!! thanks x

[monkeyeyes]

You can't get a bloke because your frame of mind is distinctly in the negative.

Find something, any little thing about which to be positive, and build from there.........

Despite the fact that most guys seem to wander around blind-folded, there WILL be someone who notices you. And then that will give you added impetus in your quest to slim.

Smile, just because it's a Tuesday and you are alive :o)

[fine,thanks]

i think you are a very good friend !

[rugeleyboy]

get a grip............... blokes love "NOT" thin women!!!

be happy in yourself and keep smiling.............. nobody likes winger!!!!!!!!!!

[mistys]

Once you start to feel happy in yourself the fellas will come calling.

Ive put on weight recently (about a stone) but im actually happy with my body for a change and lately ive been getting attention from guys, even tho im no size 8!!

Learn to be happy in yourself before worrying about what men are thinking.

Gather the girls round for a night in or out and try to have fun.

Happy Damn Tuesday :)

[Gromit]

You're not depressed.

[Goodsoulette]

Ive been skinny and I have been a fatty and I now rest somewhere inbetween. Being thin, fat or as I am now I have never had trouble getting a date. I know I may not be classically the best looking girl in the room but to someone I will be Besides looks really are not everything.

[Englishbird]

I'm feeling very down today pt, for similar reasons, so I can sympathise. Actually, I'm hoping I'm due on, because otherwise I'm just a miserable cow!!

I'm not normally like this, but for some reason I just don't have the energy to be 'perky' today. Feel sorry for yourself for a little while, nuture yourself, and then re-group and resolve to do something about it. I just hope my resolve returns, but it gets exhausting!

[Octavius]

Is this National Answerbank Cheer Me Up Day?

I though that was next week. I agree with rugely, get a grip, go out and get some fresh air and �..always look on the bright side of life, de dum de-dum-de-dum-de-dum

[Goodsoulette]

again Octavius....are you sure arent my dad?

[China Doll]

I think a sense of perspective might help. There could be a lot worse in your life.

If you're that worried about it then go to the doctors and go on a diet.

Apologies if that sounds harsh but if it's upsetting you that much then it really is the only way.

[mccfluff]

i know its easy to say but you need to change the way you thinking, and be more positive about life, get out go walking (i walk to and from work each day and have now offically dropped a dress size woo hoo), as a result i'm much happier - and have men hanging about in droves, which isn't the point but quite nice anyway, good luck hun and a biiiiiiigggggg hug

[Octavius]

Again Goods, is your mum called Cheryl?

[Aschenbach]

...at least you won't have to share dessert

[sarah1987]

i went through a long stage like that but my partner prefers women with meat on them rather than stick and bone. i got an exercise bike just to try and cheer myself up abit and it worked. i went on it every night whilst i watched the television, and even though i didnt really look any different, i felt different in side. it is about how you are and feel on the inside not on the outside

[Goodsoulette]

No but I kinda get the feeling you might be my grandad now.

[Octavius]

Oh sweet mother of our dear lord baby Jesus. I�m no Wayne Rooney, but was your granny called Mabel?

[Goodsoulette]

its her middle name but she used it for a while back along.Can I have a mint humbug or a worthers original?

[Octavius]

If you fetch my slippers you can have Fox's Glacier Mint.

[Goodsoulette]

Im not going near old man feet for an inferior mint. Trebor extra strong or a fishermans friend and we might have a deal.