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Thanks for the Tamworth link dotty, I had dismissed that earlier, it could be the generation I'm looking for. I saw the name Ruth Guest and I saw Maria too, but didn't know who she was. Ruth Hannah b1867 married in 1889 but I thought it was Russell. And Gt gt Grandma Ruth Osborn b 1815 I think was married in 1843 to John b 1812. The only other Ruth is b 1876 to Frank b1853 and Harriet Ann (that's a strange story).
Craft the Leeds link is interesting I have some names that I can't match up with the families I have. They all come from Hunslet Leeds, I will follow them up tomorrow. It could be that John married Hannah, I have it that he married Ruth in 1843. I'll have to log off now, thanks very much to you both for your help, I've been getting nowhere with this lately.