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For context, I'm in the US Navy so I've been away from home for 5 months for training.
My (18M) (ex)girlfriend (18F) broke up with me. This comes after i found out she was cheating on me and lying to me.
The Story:
I found out because my mom had called me. My mom is friends with my ex, let's call her Avery, on Facebook. Mom saw a new relationship status saying dating this guy, "Tony". I didn't see this, since Avery unfriended me (i didn't even know until that point). But this "Tony" guy had sent me a friend request. I accepted it and immediately saw the relationship status, which was set to friends only. I asked Avery who "Tony" was. She told me "i have no idea." I messaged "Tony" on messanger asking him who he is. He said "why are you talking to my girl?" I told him she was my girlfriend. He apologized and told me that she said she didn't have a boyfriend. That we'd already broken up.
He confronted Avery about it, who told him he's the only one she wants. She then messaged me saying "i think we need to take a break because i have a lot going on and need to figure things out in my life. I'm sorry." And that was the last i heard from her.
My response? "I'm sorry too. Sorry that i actually trusted you. I thought what we had was special, but I was a fool. You cheated on me with "Tony" and tried to cover it up. "Tony" told me everything. And if you`re going to end things with someone, even if it's long-distance, give them the common courtesy of a phone call. Not a text. Goodbye"
I feel like i was a bit harsh there.
And i also know she lied about not knowing "Tony" is because i had partner sharing turned on for Google Photos, which shows your partners photos saved to their phone/ Google Account. I saw a screenshot of a 34-day Snapchat streak with this same "Tony," pinned with a heart next to his name.
TL;DR: Need some advice on getting over a breakup after catching partner cheating and lying?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.no, not too harsh; but once you've given her a good smack, time to concentrate on yourself.
Are you going to be away sea a lot? You might find it makes her easier to forget; but it will also make keeping up a relationship harder, despite the availability of various social media. There are likely to be too many opportunities and temptations for anyone, of either sex, to stay faithful to someone who's out of sight for months at a time.
Easy....just live, things that seem important at 18 really lose their impact over time. Eventually it's likely you will meet someone who will be right for you, who will let you rebuild trust. Maybe wait until you settle down in London me place. Distance relationships are harder, especially when you are younger.
Time, and finding other interests to take your mind off things. Try not to brood too long at any one time. Accept feeling momentarily down, but after a short while find another thing to concentrate on.
It'll take a while, but the human mind does adapt to change. Recall you were happy before meeting her, will be again, and no doubt will have other opportunities to meet someone more compatible.