Stop me if I'm wrong, but it could just be that some of the matter in the Universe has been flung so forcibly outwards into space that it is almost beyond the effect of all the gravity of all the other matter? For example, through chance there might be a load of small pebbles that are travelling at � the speed of light out into nothingness, but they're being slowed down by the gravity of the universe that is light years behind them. The pebbles could travel so fast and be so far away from everything that they would only encounter the slightest opposing force to slow them down. And if that was to happen all around the universe - runaway particles flying off in every direction - then it would become very big indeed, and yet never infinite, because the matter would always be pulled back to the centre of mass, even if it took a thousand Big Bangs.