Well, you may have to. When you get the upstairs working with the red and black pair in L1 & L2, what do you have in com? With the upstairs working like this, one of the remaining wires must be a switch wire for the downstairs light, and the one left is either redundant or a feed for the downstairs light. If it's redundant you have to get the feed from one of the wires from the 2-way switch. Sometimes, to keep the upstairs and downstairs on seperate circuits (which is generally a good idea) the two-way is wired slightly differently, where at one switch you have 5 wires (2 twin reds and a single red) and at the other you have 3 wires (twin red and single). This would be more common in newer installations. The advantage is that you have a feed at both switches. If this the case, you can get a feed for downstairs from L1 or L2 of the 2-way if you haven't got one already (see above). That's about all I know about 2-ways. I don't think I can help you any more without being there, so good luck.