when you say the rads heat up when you have a shower, do you mean the rad in the bathroom or more than one rad ?if more than one rad the diverter valve is letting by, it may have a split diaphram, if your valve contains one.
this is nothing to do with your ignition problem and you should do as the builder suggested and call in a gas safe engineer
most boilers need morethan one bar pressure when cold and this will rise to 1.5 or 2.0 bar when the boiler is ignited, its when it gets to 3.0 bar, then it indicitive of a problem