Should Marriage Between First Cousins Be...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Oneyedvic - a bit of both actually. I am not entitled to live in council property because I work full time and "theoretically" they deem me fit to buy my own property... which I couldnt even contemplate. My wages (even if I had a part time job as well) would not get me a mortgage, let alone the repayments each month.
So I was really moaning that the council only house those in certain situations. (I split from an ex a few years ago and at the time I was living in his council owned flat, so I was the one that had to move out because my name wasnt on the book - so I had to pay rent to a private landlord. Before this though, I was really stuck as to where to go as the split wasnt foreseen - so I rang the council really upset asking for help and the best they could do for me was give me a list of B&Bs in the area (which I would have to pay for) or hostels.... I had friends to go to but I was disgusted that they council wouldnt help someone like me - basically who pays their own way and doesnt claim benefits, has mental health issues or is illegally in this country!!
So I was just asking the question if anyone has ever been homed by the council who is a normal working citizen who puts money into the government instead of taking it out??
I agree ignoramus, what goldheart doesnt seem to understand is that these people are in very unforunate situations. This is what council houses are for. The council really can't afford to house everyone can they?
Alot of people are in your situation, ie unable to afford to buy a house at the moment because of crazy prices, myself included. But since I like you, am working, and getting paid a decent salary, why does the council need to subsidise me? I understand what you mean- caught in the middle etc, but really speaking we would be on the bottom of a priority list.
I for one would fine terrible knowing that I was given a council house, whilst a woman fleeing from domestic abuse had nowhere to go. Do you see my point? We have to put ourselves relative to others. I can sometimes feel that I don't have enough money and that life's crap, but really, there are so many people who have it worse, with no one and nowhere to turn to.
Anyway good luck with your housing issues!
Ignoramus and Ammy!
Thank you for your responses, however, I will let you know that I have too been through the b&b system, for 8 months actually with a boyfriend who was made homeless - he was the one being housed and I was with him and have seen for myself - yeah a few single mothers and a couple of families, in fact we all got on really well that we still keep in touch now... it was a horrible place but it was a means to an end. I also work voluntarily at the local drop-in centre and even though its only one weekend a month I deliver meals on wheels for the elderly in my local area. My mother had mental health issues most her life. A friend of mine is also a single mother - as are some of my nieces - so I AM speaking from experience! I may come across as being bigoted, condescening and intolerant of other people's situations but I dont really care how I come across. I agree that you cant tar people with the same brush but we all know how the system works dont we? Its awful for women (and men) and children when in an abusive household, they need help, Im not disputing that.
I cannot afford housing, even shared ownership schemes, and Im simply stating that I think I should also be entitled to help from the council, at the end of the day I pay my way. I may be fortunate... working, roof over my head and food on the table, good health, friends and family etc... but dont have a go at me about it.
Ammy, would you really feel terrible if the council gave you a brand new 3 bedroom house - if it was taken from a women fleeing domestic violence? I doubt it!
Its very easy to write that you would, isnt it?