Nasty Man Tormenting My Aunt

[prendi]

My aunt is 88 yrs old,she was hurt in an accident about 4 yrs ago and is disabled now.Her neighbours across the road from her volunteered to get her pension for her,lotto tickets and bits of shopping.they now get her tablets together for her,very kind you may think??she pays them £50 a week for the privilege.Recently ,the husband,neighbour,has started to bring her tablets across to her,but he has been creeping in the house and startling my aunt!!he has a key so can go in any time he wants,so we put some wind chimes up to alert my aunt when he comes in,but he had started to hold them still when he walks in! she walks with a zimmer frame and he comes in the house and just stands behind her quietly and when she turns round nearly jumps out of her skin!she is also a little deaf.the other day when she was trying to hang her washing out,holding on to the zimmer,he came behind her and ruffled her hair and she nearly fell over.she has a son who lives a fair way from her but he depends on these 2 monsters to look after her.we rang him up and told him and he is reluctant to say anything to them as he doesn't want to upset them in case the wont look after her any more!! I told him she is going to have a stroke or summat if he carries abusing her,which it is really.she has careline,but she just likes the thought of them 2 being there in case she falls at home.it is a terrible situation to be in as we will feel guilty if any thing does happen to her,but she wont let us say anything to him cos she said he isanasty man.he is also very dirty looking and scraggy hair and beard which would scare any one.she is now very nervous as she is always looking ed her in case he is there.any thoughts on this dilemma will be much appreciated as we are at a loss as to what to do.sorry for rambling,thanks.

[pixie373]

She may be able to qualify for direct payments, which she can put towards care. It will certainly be more expensive, if she's having 3 visits a day, but will put her mind at rest.

[welshlibranr]

firstly change the locks!....then ring Social Services straight away!....your aunt needs to be protected from this!....