How Should An Individual Feel When They Are So Different Compared To Others In Their Age Range (Explained In The Description)?

[MM305]

\- If that person was known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,

\- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,

\- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking

\- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),

\- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault

There’s gotta be a word (other than different) to describe what’s going on with that individual right? Is it loser, or what word would you guys use? Plus, How do you think he should feel and what should he/she do about it?

[New Judge]

He should feel pleased that he is not the same as everybody else.

[MM305]

Forgot to add in the description, but also explain why they should feel whatever you guys believe he/she should feel.

[Mamyalynne]

If the said individual is surrounded by a group of others who reinforce what they feel are their own failings then they should trike out and make new acquaintances and work on their self belief.

Not having luxury and beauty and having physical disabilities do not bar you from a happy and successful future.


As NJ says, celebrate your differences from the crowd.

[MM305]

What does “trike” mean?

[Nical]

MM, just a missing letter, strike rather than trike - 'they should strike out and make new...'

[Mamyalynne]

Typo - * Strike

[MM305]

Thanks for answering Mamyalynne.

What about you New Judge...I know you answered the same thing, but I would like to know your reason WHY he or she should feel that way?

[Theland]

What a weird question!

[Tilly2]

An individual should feel what the want to feel. They should go there own way and not let others demean or belittle them.

I presume you are talking about yourself, and in that case, you should plough your own furrow and live your life as you wish.

Try to address those things that you can change. If you just continue to accept what is happening, it will happen all the more.

Be your own person, not what others expect you to be.

[Togo]

Anyone who has airhead/idiotic tendencies, speech/mental disabilities, has no license, car, job, money, house, and is downright unattractive, was unpopular in school and hopeless at sport whilst being a "I don't like music" type, and both physically and mentally weak should vote Layboor next week. Agent Cob is going to fix all those issues for you and turn you into an overnight, all round good egg millionaire. You will find two or three just like you on this site if you care to look around.

[CrapAtCryptics]

There is a name for a person who is all those things - its called being an individual - and is preferred by many not of the sheep mentality.

[Tilly2]

I think the poster is American, Togo.

[Togo]

//I think the poster is American, Togo.//

That would figure Tills.......You don't suppose it's Trump do you? (^_*)

[woofgang]

There is no "should" about feelings and its often not possible to choose how you feel. What you can choose is what you do about it.....what do you want to do?

[pixie374]

I wonder whether you are either surrounding yourself by the wrong people, or worrying too much what they might think. You are doing nobody any harm. Just a bit more independence and confidence in yourself, imo x

[Tilly2]

It is Donald, Togo. Fits him to a 'T'. :-)

[Atheist]

NJ; why do you refer to this Individual as "He"?

[Tilly2]

...except the luxuries bit.

[woofgang]

Atheist check out the OP's other questions....he describes himself as a he

[pixie374]

His profile says male.