jennyjoan, We had a mattress with buttons on it & couldn't stand it, you could feel the dips and the buttons. We bought a Tempur mattress years ago & have never looked back. My OH has terrible back pain, so after going to furniture stores & trying out different mattresses (pre-covid) we settled on a Tempur mattress. ( by the way - A bed with slats can make the mattress take on a different, unwelcoming feel) After the recommended "mattress life" we then went to look at mattresses again (pre covid) We wanted to go for something cheaper (Tempurs can be costly) We tried mattress toppers (waste of time & money) and after trying so many mattresses, we went back to the Tempur mattress, no regrets. There was also a trying out period but we had to buy a Tempur mattress protector, otherwise that was a no to them taking it back. Definitely read all the T&C's. I don't know how the trying period works now with covid. There was also on their website, where you could ask for a sample of the mattress (cube of it) to feel the texture for yourself. There are offers where they throw in the mattress protector or pillows in for free (haggle with them) Hope that helps and is of some use. Jackie Daniels