Are we splitting up for the right reasons??

[sair5412]

Hi,

I'm really confused at the moment and wonder if I can gain some insight from others.

I'll start from the beginning. When I was 23 I gave birth to my son and was engaged with a half/half ownership in a house. When our son was 10 months old my fiance slept with someone else in our bed and we inevitably split up. We sold the house and the money made from it wasn't very significant once I'd paid a few bills and debts it was all but gone. My fiance moved away and said he would write to our son when he was 18 to explain!

My son and I moved into a house that my parents were planning to rent on the open market as a source of their income. As my son was very young, working full-time was not an option so I had to work part-time and claim housing and council tax benefits. Then I met Paul. He was so lovely with my son, has his own business and we got on well. We saw each other every night for a year until he said he wanted to buy a house that we could all move into. A year after I had moved into my parents rented house, we moved out and into the house bought by Paul. Exactly a year on, things arent working out and we both feel we are going to end up hating each other if we do not split up. The reasons we are splitting up are- I feel that he is not romantic and caring enough. He doesn't touch me very often I mean in a tender "just because" touch, we don't sit on the same sofa, we hardly ever kiss. When I am ill, he complains that he can't cope with it and immecdiately goes on to tell me how it makes him feel and gets angry with me.

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[lia*]

is he gay? how old is he? ask him if there is someone else.
have you told him how you feel, and about the way he is behaving towards you? have a serious talk with him . it's very difficult for some men to be affectionate and emotional.
move on if you have to. you will know after you have a serious talk with him.