help with my crush!

[rickyandreas]

So I have crush on this girl and it's been a couple of months but I tried to ignore it and concentrate on my studies,but after a while the crush just kept on getting stronger and stronger ( too strong for me to continue ignoring it ) so one night while i was on facebook she told me " go sleep ! :p "(she was joking ..) or something along the lines of that and i told her i was about to go sleep and told goodnight then slept but the next day she was on facebook till midnight and we had school so i told her to go sleep and she told me that she had to stay awake because she had to finish her class project so i decided to stay online with her till like 1 and we wished eachother goodnight and went offline.So i have been talking to her for a very long time and we are veryyyy good friends and she always pulls of this amazing ( MOST BEAUTIFUL ) smile everytime i'd see her at school ( but i never see her say Hi to any other person that way at school , she just says hi to the others in a funny way like she doesn't care about them )and we'd say " hey " to eachother but we don't talk that much at school (we talk when we meet outside but not inside school since i don't meet her that much inside). So her bestfriend is one of my good friends so I decided to tell her everything ( she is very trustworthy ) and she told me that my crush said that I was a generous and cute guy.So we talked a lot on blackberry,what's app and facebook but about 2 weeks ago she stopped starting convo's and I would always start them but she would always answer and say goodnight :* ( kiss ) but she still smiles when she sees me at school.
I don't know what to do! I'm very confused.I don't know whether I should talk to her and tell her I love her ( I really love for! i can't thinking about her ) or should I get help from her bestfriend?(who had told me I should tell her everything)
Please I love this girl so muchhhh! I think about her everyday! even everyday hour probably! she is always on my mind!!!
By the way i'm 15!

[Jemisa]

15? Well probably is a crush & its beautiful at your age I still remember mine (enjoy) but you will get over it, but the beautiful memory will stay with you always. (but I hope it doesn't end in tears) Bless you both. Awwww!

jem

[Slapshot]

Ahhh the life of growing up.....I have a vague memory of my first crush....sounds vaguley alike.

You have two options my friend, seriously front up, tell her how you feel and ask her out or forget her otherwise you'll never shake what you feel right now. If it's not to be then it's not to be but you need to find out if she might feel the same way as well.

Bonne Chance

[andy-hughes]

OK, do NOT tell her that you love her, you'll frighten the poor girl to death!

Your intesnse feelings are completely normal, and I understand how hard they are to deal with.

What you need to understand is a basic aspect of relationships with girls - just because you feel so intensely about her does not automatically mean she feels the same way about you.

What you need to do is find out how she does feel. Ask her to the pics, or for a burger, something like that, as friends. Take it from me, if she is romantically interested in you, she will let you know. You will get non-verbal signals, she will sit close to you, touch your arm a lot, hold hands when you walk, that kind of thing.

If she is not showing these signs, it means she likes you as a friend,but she doesn't fancy you at the moment.

This way, you find out with making yourself look and feel foolish, and you can get past your feelings (impossibe I know!) in private, and still be able to see her at school.

This may be a crushing blow, but if she is not keen, nothing you say is going to change her mind, would be great if life worked like that, but it doesn't.

So - if she is keen, take it very gently, and don't go declaring love in these early stages. If she is not keen, then you have to accept that and transfer your feelings to another girl who is going to return them - chasing someone who is not available just hurts loads, and is simply not worthe pain - trust me!

I hope this helps - please let us know.

[TTG]

Suggest a daytime coffee somewhere before someone else starts dating her. Don't share anything else with anyone about this. Just talk to her and ask her out yourself!

Good luck, you seem a good guy.

[johnk]

She may have cooed because she's fed up waiting for you to make a move. I would go with Andy-H's plan, it's exactly what I was about to suggest.