Humm.. dilemma-ish

[hippyhoppy]

Obvz as you know been divorce for yonks... should I go back to maiden name or stay a'la childrens surname...? Quite fancy being an Evanson again.. (even tho I have to spell the bloody name every time !)

[woofgang]

How old are the children and what do they think?

[hippyhoppy]

13 and 18.. I'd be an Evanson (already updated my facebook (as you do) ) and they'd be .. errm not...

[hippyhoppy]

Surely they'll always be their dad's name... I'll just be like the nanny..

[hippyhoppy]

Or the landlady.. demading coffers..

[tinkerbell23]

Be a nice change to go to your old name if you fancy i think!? Xx

[Prudie]

I divorced when daughter was 4 but kept name because of her, school etc etc. I've never remarried and really regret not going back to my maiden name - I'm lumped with the surname of a guy I can't stand and I always hated the name even when I didn't hate him!!

[tinkerbell23]

Prudie...you should go for it and change it xx

[webbo3]

strange, i never noticed until i clicked on your name.

Dave. x

[Prudie]

I keep saying that to my partner of 12 years in the hope he says don't bother we'll get married instead - haha x

[woofgang]

I was asking what the kids would think about your not having their name?

[daffy654]

I just changed my 14 year old son's surname to his dad's, it will make things less complicated for them when I die, so it had to be done. It does feel odd that he doesn't have my name any more :(