What Should I Do In This Situation?

[sofa8]

Dear Answerbank,
I hope you can already answer to my question. The problem is there is a 17-year-old boy with who i go training session together every week. When we were in the same training camp where i observed he was starring at me once. While we were there we were talking a little to each other and he smiled me when We were talking. Once we were together at an exercise i looked at him and he smiled me at that time. A day after we were at the beach and there were two 12-year-old children who said that to him to cheer up me because i was upset because of another boy. He said, yes to them. Then they came up to me and said that the boy would like to say me something. I came up to him and asked that it is true to call me. He said that it is not. Then the kids said to him to make up to me. They came up to me again and told me that he likes me, but i did not beleive to them. I asked the guy it is true, but he said that he do not want to talk about it and really likes everyone. I left him alone, but the children were telling me all the time he likes me, but i did not beleive and then the boy come up to us and said that it is true. I didn’t beleive it o said and he just stood in front of me be smiled. The kids asked him to ask me how i am . I said i am well and he went back to his friend. Afterthat they asked me whether it gives me a good feeling. I answered yes and they told me he was starring at me the whole day but i knew it is not true. He said not to beleive everything that They say but it is true he starred at me the whole day and he likes me. He praised my poem as well which i wrote about the camp. He said that my poem is really good and there were a lot of work in it. Then he got an erection what one children noticed and she shouted he got erection and laugheted on it unfortunetely i also. Poor guy felt himself embarrassingly and put his hands over there and went away but the kids ran After him and asked him whether he likes me. He said that he likes me like a clubmate but i annoy him but he don’t know why and the other guy disgusts me. After it They told me that They don’t think the other guy disgust me. When the camp ended i wrote him it is true to like me. He said it was just a joke. A few days later i also wrote him and i asked him if he have got fancy to talk me. He wrote back he is busy because he on holiday. About a week later i wrote him again but i did not get answer so i have not written him since than. 2 weeks before the trainings started so i see him 3 times a week, but he started ignoring me and when i say him Hi before every single training lesson he tries not to make eye contact with me.

[Mamyalynne]

How old are you Sofia?

If you are the same age as those you mention in your question then, just be pals and take things a bit less seriously for now.

[anneasquith]

What's for dinner in the hospital squad ?

[Sqad]

LOL...LOL.

[spathiphyllum]

In answer to your question, go with the flow. and try not to hope for anything

[Sqad]

At one time, we had a subsection called Relationships and Dating, which might have been more appropriate for this poser.

[anneasquith]

**** poster .

[Sqad]

Jordy i do believe that it is AB policy to answer any and all questions however ludicrous or improbable and as such, we must follow rules.

[sofa8]

I am 16

[Mamyalynne]

Don't take notice of giggling 12 year olds, make friends of all types and take life gently.

[sofa8]

And what should i do with the boy?( i like him)

[cashier]

Ignore him, he's clearly not interested.

[Mamyalynne]

Make general conversation, discuss shared interests, there's no need to rush.

If he goes quiet then carry on with your life for now, if he likes you then things may change.

[andy-hughes]

Sqad - // Jordy i do believe that it is AB policy to answer any and all questions however ludicrous or improbable and as such, we must follow rules. //

There is no such 'policy' - people answer if they wish, and hopefully have something useful to contribute.

[Peter Pedant]

This sounds like an Aimi McDonald soliloquy from 50 y ago

No he is not interested - and concentrate on your training sessions, you will get more out of them

( this isnt a question about her mother in law is it?)

[Sqad]

A-H...thanks you for clarifying that point.
I remember an issue arising some time ago and the Ed/Spare Ed whoever, made it clear that all questions should be taken as fact and answered upon.
Clearly, I was mistaken.

[kvalidir]

Firstly ignore anything anyone else tells you he thinks/ does/ says, they might possibly have their own agenda.
Secondly, he clearly is okay with just being friendly and social, so leave it at that for a while. Don't keep messaging him and pestering him and saying 'he says, she says' etc, that will only irritate him.
thirdly if you really do like him and he really likes you then it will happen if you see one another regularly, and if it doesn't you need to accept that he only wants to be friends.
In any event take it slowly, stop being so obvious ( men like to chase a little sometimes rather than have it all dumped in their lap like a present) and let him do the chasing if he's interested and meanwhile just be nice, normal and friendly.
As for his erection men get erections all the time, it doesn't mean anything necessarily.
So chill, be his friend and see if he starts to take a romantic interest in you.