Thanks Lie-in King
It gives me the option to deactivate account but not avatar.
Quite concerned as it could have grabbed any pic. Thinking I may deactivate account. Saw somewhere that I can access avatars after x weeks and 10 posts and not really happy with it.
Found this under edit profile..... "New users do not have immediate access to an Avatar, but after a short introductory period you will be able to set your own Avatar.
You may connect with Gravatar in 14 days and after 10 more legitimate posts."
Nice to have met you, the caterpillar may be back after a metamorphosis.
Hi Caterpillar - I'm sorry I wasn't more help & don't know why the "Deactivate avatar" button doesn't show for you, unless the system is set up to assume that as a new user, you can't have one yet? Odd.
I can see a picture on his profile. Why not just log into Gravatar, upload a picture you like and use that instead. Avatars here are easily changed. People do it all the time.
I think it's because you've used Gravatar elsewhere & AB has picked that fact up & gone with the active pic in that account.
If it's making you uncomfortable & you want to leave completely - for now! - ask on this thread & a Moderator can "ban" your account, which should remove your profile along with this thread.