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help...online bloke...what shall I do now ??
Now, guys, what does this mean ?!?!? I really can't believe he would ditch me because i said no to his offer for tonight ! He's not the type...Did he get upset because I said no when he'd finally ( sort of ) plucked up the courage to ask me out ?? Or did he just drop his phone in the toilet , that's why he's not replying, and I shouldn't make an issue of it ? lol
So now what ???? Do I keep texting, do I call him ( never even heard his voice ! ), or do I wait and see ? It's the first time I've been close to meeting someone online, and I REALLy like this guy. Help please !!! Sorry for the long post...Max. XXX
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.There could be such a simple explaination as to why he hasn't text back. You can analyse this all you like and we can give you all the answers under the cyber sun.. but the truth is.. you wont know until he tells you. I'd message him one last time on Faceparty and leave it at that. You want him to know you are still interested but you don't want him to think you are obsessed! But also... Dot is right.. you don't know who he is so if you do meet him (and I think you should) be careful. Let a friend know where you are and meet him somewhere crowded. And make sure when you leave him at the end of the date that he doesn't follow you to your car or anything like that. Other than that.. have fun.
Thank you peeps, all is well now ! lol He just texted saying he was in the pub and ran out of credit !!! Now we're planning for the week end ! :-)
Sorry for the panicky thread....jee, I didn't think I was THAT keen ! lol
And don't worry, I'll be careful. Wish me luck ! xxx
I met my bloke through faceparty and we have a son now. 2 of my best mates are also in serious relationshsips through FP, one wedding.
But there are often some weirdos i have to say I was messaged by 5 fake firemen before i finally met my partner and found out he was a fireman lol
3 months is a long time to have been messaging tho. Maybe hes a shy one and to ask you out at short notice was because he didnt want time to panic.
Id say message him on faceparty and see what he says. It took 4 months before my partner and i met face to face and 2 months later we were expecting and overjoyed. i love him to bits.
If you do meet this bloke then make sure people know where you are. get a landline number for him too and check it out. Get as much solid imformation about him as you can before meeting and meet in a public place. take your own car so that you are not relying on public transport or a lift.
Also a tip that i used was to get a friend to text you an hour into your meet and ask a question only you know the answer too. My friend texted 'what motorbike do i own?' and all i could answer was 'a blue one' but he knew it was me and that i was safe. After that he always texted and asked 'colour?' each time i went out with one of the many frogs i met.
Best of luck, hope faceparty works as well for you as it did for me.
Maximo, thats exactly how i felt about my bloke. Its almost 2 years since we met and i still go all tingly thinking about when we finally did meet. He was wearing his bike leathers which always does it for me, but he is lovely, kind and caring. Oh and a great daddy.
Ooooh Im excited for you. Cant wait to hear how it went.
Just make sure youre safe. He'll understand if hes the nice bloke you think he is so dont worry about making sure everyone knows where you are.
Red: I'm really really excited about it....I've got a good feeling about him ! Thing is, I haven't "dated" anyone in ages ! I'm not sure how to behave....lol Plus, I'm really scared that it will spoil everything if we meet ! I'm not the most confident person, I must admit...:-) I'll let you know how it goes..
BTW : he's gone quiet again now...aaaaaaaaarghhhhhh ! Men, can't live with them, can't bury them under the patio either, hey ! ( sorry Boo, I stole that one from ya ! ). xxx
Well ! I've done it ! lol
Thought I'd give you an update , although mot sure if any of ya are going to see this...
We went out last night, and although a bit stressful at first, it turned out great ! We went to a couple of pubs, and got on very well ( plus, he's VERY cute, which helped a lot ! lol ), then we took a taxi around midnight,and he dropped me home....No kiss though, just a quick peck on the cheek as I was getting out of the taxi, and there was no time to say goodbye "properly" lol ...:-(
He texted me later, and said we should do it again sometimes...I asked when he was free next, and he said he had a busy week end but next week is fine. I was sort of hoping I would see him again this week end though...:-( Do you guys think it looks good, or does the fact he said he was busy this week-end mean he doesn't really wanna see me again and was putting me down gently ???
I'm sooooooo excited now, but I don't know what to think...and to top it all, my mobile went dead this morning, which means I won't be able to see if he's sent me a text before tonight ! AAAAAAARGHHHHHHHH
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