sex life going down the pan

[babyt]

since having my 18 month old son i dont seem to have the time or energy to have sex with my partner we used to really intimate but i had a few problems after having the little one and the last time we had sex was christmas can anyone give me advice how to get it back other wise he's gonna walk ! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[leelapops]

babyt, this is really common, I think. I am not really sure what to suggest, except that worrying about it makes it much worse (I know!).

Have you thought about what would turn you on? It isn't just about your partner, it's you too. Re-exploring one another's bodies will probably feature heavily, as it has been a little while since you were intimate.
You must be exhausted with a young son, can you get anyone to have him overnight? This would take some of the pressure of always needing to be there for him off you, and you could maybe relax a little more.

Go out on a 'date' with your partner, do something you enjoy.
Also, has he 'threatened' to walk? That seems a little unfair: he needs to understand how busy and tired you are.
Does he help out much with baby? Or round the house?

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