I don�t understand Ethel�s objection to receiving payment via Western Union Money Transfer for items sold on ebay. The risk is entirely the buyer�s � that is one of the reasons ebay advises against this type of payment. If you do a runner with the buyer�s money, ebay will do nothing to assist the buyer.
The way a Western Union Money Transfer works, is that the person transferring the money to you, pays their local office the money they wish to pay you + a fee. [The buyer must pay all charges associated with you receiving the due amount in Sterling]. They give your precise details and a security question, only you should be able to answer (such as what is the item purchased). Once you have been advised that the payment has been made, you go to your local Western Union office (with some form of ID, e.g Passport) and collect the money. Only then do you dispatch the item to the buyer. The Western Union office gives you cash � once they have done so, the sender cannot get the money back.
I must admit that the Paypal fees are almost certain to be less that that charged by Western Union � but that is the buyers concern � as long as you make it clear that the item will only be sent once you have collected the cash, you cannot loose.
The only potential problem is that they are messing you about and have no intention of buying the item, or ask you to send it before payment has been received.