well, yes, it may seem wierd, but look at it from a mum's point of view, well, look at it from the mum of our friend D. he died in a bike accident in august 2007. he was unmarried, never had any children, there is no grandchild to be proud of, no hope of the name carrying on. I actually think that without the sensationalising of the story, it is an intensly profound concept, making the future more optimistic and bringoing comfort to a bereaved parent. God if i lost any of mine what comfort would i find in a grnadchild. the one i have is so important to us, so precious, i actually can totally relate to this idea. `