To the OP, well done, and yes, the priority is not passing on germs from resident to resident.Of course you look after yourself, but you're young and healthy, and can muster most viruses I'm sure.Hand gel in between washes is fine, wash your hands as often as you can after each toileting session if you can, or as soon after as you can.Infection control, its good practice and you can buy these gels from the chemist now.As for the eejit who told you to get anoher job, that person will be getting their arse wiped when they're 80 by people like me and you, and cant you just tell they will be a pleasure to work with? the people I have worked with in homes with dementia never lose their true self, and hate the indignity of someone taking off their underwear to clean them, no matter how their mind has gone.you can only afford them what dignity you can, and at least talk to them, use empathy etc.anyway, rant over!