michael13man. how about asking around and doing babysitting. or taking dogs for walks, or even offering to wash cars. put a card in the shop window offering your services....gardening even.
but i also need a good paying job so i can move in with my nan and grandad because i don't really like it here i have my cousin wake me up at 6:30 in the morning my aunt makes me go to bed at 7 and turns all the power in my room off i only get 2 meals a day and i am only supposed to be on the computer for 10 mins a day
I don't think he should be taking responsability for paying for the funeral, but I think he probably does need to earn a bit of money for himself.
Maybe he wants to feel he has done something for his mum by wanting to help with funeral costs.
It's a sad, sad world isn't it people?
If she's still in the hospital then could you speak to the health authority there and see if they can help you arrange something?
They usually have advice centres or advisors in the hospital who may be able to help you or you could ask to speak to the hospital chaplain who may well know what to do.
Well, if you don't want to tell us, Michael, I don't see how we can help you. If your mum died, someone must have dealt with it. There must be an adult involved in this, whether it was a doctor, hospital staff, hospice staff, social services, or the police, someone would have had to handle the formalities - and that someone couldn't possibly have been you. Under no circumstances would you have been left to deal with this on your own.
my nan and grandad will help i havent told them yet i have been so upset i forgot to tell them but as soon as i tell them i don't really need to worry about the funeral
michael honey, you have been given plenty of good advice, and lots of contacts to try. so best of luck with all these babes, and I'm sure everything will turn out ok for you soon.