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Moral Dilemma - I need help here...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.If I were you I'd still go on the trip and enjoy yourself, IF he makes a move then just calmly explain that you already have a boyfriend but you are always there for him if he needs to talk!
You could also keep mentioning your boyfriend in a casual way so he gets the hint that you're spoken for!
If you really don't want to go skiing though then just tell him that you can't afford it or your boyfriend has made other plans!
Good luck with it!
Good luck with your situation. It doesn't sound like anything 'unwelcome' is going on - and if there is I'm sure you can nip it in the bud.
Hmmm..rather like a lesbian isn't always butch!
I agree with the others, amulet. I wouldn't be worried & to be honest you would be missing out on a nice holiday and *possibly* helping him come to terms with his sexuality (without physically helping him if you catch my drift!).
As has been suggested, him being gay doesn't automatically mean he fancies you (another 'hetero' faux pas, lol) obviously you don't fancy every gay man you have met?
If you really don't want to go on the trip then you are sure to think up an excuse ~ but I think it would be a shame if you don't. How about taking your boyfriend too?
I'd tell him you'd like to take your current bf along as well to experience the skiing hol and if he doesn't like that then say you're not willing to go.
Was this teacher expecting you to share a room with him or were you going to have single rooms? This would be a telltale sign, I would think.
And by inviting your bf you're making it clear that separate rooms are needed.
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