when bad things arent really that bad

[4getmenot]

I know I never come on here at night but I have to chat to someone, anyone really. Years ago I was 'seeing' a guy on and off for ten years as he split with his girlfriend got back with her etc etc.. he was the biggest player about but I was blind to it. He wouldnt ever settle down and I missed oppurtunities with others as I always thought he'd eventually want me. Well after 10 years I gave up and gave in to someone I knew wanted me and would treat me like a princess and I've never been happier. The ex tried to get with me again but I stuck to my guns, Anyway my ex eventually settled with his girlfriend and I used to think why has he got it so good when he's been such a b@stard. Anyway I've just found out she's now pregnant. A mate txt me and told me. I replied saying ha ha he's probably still a player. Then my mate said she needed to speak to me. I have just spent ast hour listening to her in tears as she tells me she's been sleeping with him!! I never thought I would be smiling after listening to a mate being so upset. But I now realise there will be no more what ifs coz I know if I'd got with him I would be in same situation his pregnant girlfriend is now, oblivious to it all. I could laugh all night. :-) Although I really feel for my friend. So gld I'm with someone I deserve who treats me right.

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That inside out cardi turned out to be lucky eh ;-p

[4getmenot]

It was horrible to see my mate like that. But I think it helped her talking to me and showing me his txt msgs I could tell her exatcly what msg was coming next. All same all crap just what she wanted to here when she was low to trap her. I cannot believe his girlfriend hasnt sussed it but then she lets him get away with it, she went back o him enough times before. The poor child. I told my mate even if thats it now I can guarantee he is probably seeing someone else aswell as her. His girlfriend cant trust him. I trust my man 100% I used to cry all the time over my ex, today thinking about it I cant even remember when I last cried.

[ummmm]

I couldn't go out with a mates ex...

[4getmenot]

its hard in a small town. And she just got sucked in, and she isnt going out with him now. Plus me and him were years ago

[ummmm]

Still, I don't think my imagination would let me.....

[4getmenot]

yer is a bit weird. I have never been out with my close mates exes. It just made me realise I bl00dy lucky I am to have a man like man