Not like me to side with AOG.....but it is absolutely the case that desire for boy-children makes selective abortion an open secret in the Indian subcontinent and China. Where wealthy emigrants have settled in numbers, the practice still follows. Originating in poverty and in the one-child regime of China, it's now used to engineer inheritances.
Among the poor in the east female children might be killed or sold. Even now in the glorious 21st century with all its wealth and knowledge.
I don't like the idea of abortion, but an unwanted child might live a short and miserable life.
I also don't like the normalising of what seems like a very twisted view on our wonderful human process of existence. it also sounds like people who have too much time and money on their hands.
I don't think choosing a selective abortion makes a person fit to be sterilised as OP suggests. But if this is occurring in the UK, then I'd be happy to see some forced re-education occurring with the guilty parties (clinical and parent) doing 9 months of social care work in the Gorbals. Per abortion.