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Corrupt Police Officer.
During last year, a police officer was found to be guilty by internal affairs. The officer involved is now harassing my wife in her work place (cafe), even though the officer involved has been banned from entering her work premises in uniform since last may, but continues to enter her work place, drink tea and stare. My wife made a statement to an inspector last October, of harassment against this police officer, but they refuse now to in-force the statement towards the police officer and have turned their backs on us, they may want this whole thing not to be made public. Any advice would be welcome.
Many thanks.
Les Paul.
Many thanks.
Les Paul.
Answers
This may sound a bit obvious -but why does she not just ignore him -or better still -smile and wave at him when he stares at her? - maybe take a piccie of him on her mobile phone -surely he has got a lot more to lose than her? He's not actually breaking the law sitting in a cafe drinking a cup of tea -however uncomfortabl e it makes your wife and for whatever reason he is...
11:38 Thu 25th Apr 2013
Have you sought any independent legal advice Lespaul?
and have you considered the IPCC
http:// www.ipc c.gov.u k/en/Pa ges/def ault.as px
http:// www.ipc c.gov.u k/en/Pa ges/you r_compl aint_.a spx
and have you considered the IPCC
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This may sound a bit obvious -but why does she not just ignore him -or better still -smile and wave at him when he stares at her? - maybe take a piccie of him on her mobile phone -surely he has got a lot more to lose than her? He's not actually breaking the law sitting in a cafe drinking a cup of tea -however uncomfortable it makes your wife and for whatever reason he is doing it.
i agree with ignoring him, or better, smiling and being friendly etc - he is clearly doing this to get to her - and its working - if she shows she couldn't care less, his behaviour loses it power, and he will likely stop.
i would stare back a bit, pretend to whisper to colleagues while looking at him and start laughing, shake your head pityingly, make overly friendly comments 'how is your tea sir, i hope its all that you hoped it would be'
and generally smirk at him etc
he will soon realise he's wasting his time.
she cannot do much because going into a public cafe and drinking tea is not harassment, and the staring is really just her opinion - he could say shes paranoid.
i would stare back a bit, pretend to whisper to colleagues while looking at him and start laughing, shake your head pityingly, make overly friendly comments 'how is your tea sir, i hope its all that you hoped it would be'
and generally smirk at him etc
he will soon realise he's wasting his time.
she cannot do much because going into a public cafe and drinking tea is not harassment, and the staring is really just her opinion - he could say shes paranoid.
Typing with 16 month grandson on your knee not the best idea, when he keeps deleting my work, or sending them half done. lol
If you let someone know that you are scared of something then they can use that thing to scare you.
I wouln't reccomend winding him up by waving or talking about him, but would suggest that she just serves him, then ignores him and busies herself with the other customers, cleaning or whatever.
If bullies don't get a reaction, then they don't get any gratification from wt they are doing.
Hopefully he will soon get bored. X
If you let someone know that you are scared of something then they can use that thing to scare you.
I wouln't reccomend winding him up by waving or talking about him, but would suggest that she just serves him, then ignores him and busies herself with the other customers, cleaning or whatever.
If bullies don't get a reaction, then they don't get any gratification from wt they are doing.
Hopefully he will soon get bored. X