Thoughts On Waitressing At A Strip Club!

[Amyadams67]

so I decently moved to a new state, new city, about 10 months away from getting my bachelors. However I need an extra job to hold me over, what are everyone's thoughts on waitressing at a strip club? Do you or have you known anyone that has done it? Is it too trashy? Would you look down on someone if you knew that was where they worked?

[Sqad]

Amy....remember that Chinese proverb:

"Stripper who sits on jockey's lap gets hot tip."

[stuey]

Sqad, That's a load of crop!

[2sp_]

To be fair, I got groped plenty when I worked in a fully clothed restaurant.

Why do some blokes think it's ok to grope waitresses?

[Henrietta]

To some of the guys here do you usually make these kinds of remarks around your daughters/grandaughters or their friends?

[berniecuddles]

im off its miserybank time

[Sqad]

bernie.......oh! gawd.......I'm with you.......

[berniecuddles]

lets go down your club sqad

[Henrietta]

Sorry to break up your "fun" guys but amy looks very young so men like you should be educating and protecting instead of leering and sniggering or do you think I'm wrong?

"Why do some blokes think it's ok to grope waitresses?"

2sp they're in a testosterone fueled enviroment, usually drunk, have money and feel all powerful and invincible and when men are in that scenario it seems to awaken a primal neanderthal instinct where the men are "In control" and women are 2nd rate and the waitresses are usually walking around close enough for them to suddenly grab without thinking.

We downplay it and call it a grope when in fact many times it's actually a sexual attack. Picture this in the club, out of a group of men one grabs the waitress and tries to kiss her then the friends or security break it up, the man just laughs it off and the waitress is traumatised if she's new or shrugs it off if she's an old hand.

Now picture the man grabbing the waitress for a kiss but now take away the club, take away the friends and put the waitress and drunk guy in an alleyway and now what do we have? Yes a very dangerous situation with a strong intoxicated man and a scared woman.

Sad but this and worse goes on everywhere every night even daytime as well

[Amyadams67]

@sqad
Wot

[Mamyalynne]

Amy,it's a job-if you don't think it's demeaning who cares what others think.

As said be prepared for the sleazy remarks from the clientèle.

[Baldric]

Well, I was about to add a civilised comment,
but I don't think I will bother now!

[Amyadams67]

@baldric feel free to leave the comment

[chaptazbru2]

Svejk - I thought sandy's comment was quite funny, not juvenile at all !

[Amyadams67]

Idk who sandy is tbh

[Obiter]

See post 19 @15:10.

[sandyRoe]

I would have lifted the empty glasses or swept the floors. Just to keep my eye in, you understand.

[Amyadams67]

@sandyroe I like ur name. Sandy.

[boxtops]

How old are you, amy?

[Amyadams67]

@boxtops why??

[boxtops]

Because it's hard to tell from your photo, and sometimes young ladies come on here asking questions (like this one) and the responses might not be suitable if you are (say) under 18. Just wondered.