The way you always state this the implication is it's the girl's fault alone, and it's pretty irky and hate filled language you use. As I said this myth of girls getting pregnant to deliberately get some council flat is pretty much that- a myth, yet you persist in implying it's common and in some way depriving you, and yeah it does make you sound like a misogynist. Even with plenty of money it's not easy to rear children single handedly, I've witnessed that first hand recently, but on benefits in social housing, you really think people aspire to that and in some way it harms you? No you're so wide of the mark it's almost incredible.