am i mad

[bigaggie45]

my husband was in a temp job, he met a friend on the net and he suggested that he looks for a job in his area as ther was plenty pernament ones.

he spent two years up and down for interviews. he took 3-4 days at a time down there for an interview.

he eventually got a job and told me 3 days before he left that he was going. he now lives in a flat with this friend.

he never contacted me unless i contacted him. i was so confused i gave him an ultimation there or me.

he has now got his old temp job back and is coming home..i dont know anymore if i want him

[Minxie]

tell him to sling his hook

[damajowi]

move on - lifes too short.

[dilf]

give him a chance he came back didnt he , what would he be without you. all that time away trying to make a better life for both of you and he never once doubted you he new you were better than that.

if i were you id give him 20 quid for a set meal for two and tell him to have a pint with the change

[raysparx]

I am a man and got to say, sounds a bit dodgy to me give him the elbow,if you live up to your name,that won't be a problem,

I wouldn't upset a lady called bigaggie.

Seriously though, do what is best for you,sounds as if he has. Good luck. Ray

[Dee Sa]

Hello bigaggie

what sort of relationship did he have with this man ?

sounds like he tried it and didnt like it, be very suspicious and go with your gut feeling, and if this means giving him the elbow so be it, he has done this to you once and could go off again on a whim with someone he has only "met" on the net.

good luck

[kazminx]

how do you know it was a guy?? could it have been a female..you wouldnt really know from the email address??

[bigaggie45]

i know its a man cause i went down to vist and he was there

[Paul22118]

This COULD just be a sexual fling with a guy that has now blown out. It COULD be!

All the evidence is there.

[kazminx]

how did they act together, what was the body language and eye contact like..sounds a bit strange though...feel for you babe.