I'm sorry to hear about all your problems, it can't be easy. I think all you can do is allow your solicitor to deal with getting your possessions back, but it sounds like your husband is bitter and just wants to behave in a vindictive manner so you will suffer, there is little you can do about that.
At the end of the day, you escaped with your life and you and your daughter are physically well. Possessions can always be replaced, so perhaps by rebuilding everything you have, will help you to come to terms with what has happened and help you to move on.
As long as your daughter has a supportive, loving home with you, toys don't really matter. I'm sure you, your friends and family will enjoy seeing her face light up this Christmas when she opens her new toys.
Good luck, hope it all goes well.