My son was recently, like yours, was looking for work, he too tried the 'stay at home' method but to no avail. Finally one morning two weeks ago he appeared downstairs for breakfast looking very smart,- shirt, tie etc. He said rather confidentally that if work wasn't going to come to him he was going to go out and find some himself. He spent the day touring the local industrial estates, the type of which are in most towns and cities today, he 'cold called' into several firms armed only with a copy of his CV and a willing to work attitude. As a result he was offered a choice of three jobs one of which he is now happily going of to each morning............ Hope this helps