Divorce..

[alperchino]

Guys got s good me for you here got my who will be mother and father in law arguing like children over who will get what money and why, here's the script she thought he was cheating so she went out and cheated then moved out into this blokes house that she cheated with, they have a daughter from there teens and have lived together since there teens but have only been married around 7 years she's a cash on hand hairdresser he's a lorry driver she argued she will get 70% of all he's got even tho she cheated on him, someone please help me so I d not have to listen to these idiots anymore, any more info needed then jus ask cheers in advance Al

[MarkRae]

Well, that's easy for you to say!

[alperchino]

What's easy for me to say? None of this is easy for me to say at all, please do not judge all you see is words if you'd seen what I have between these nobs,you'd have gone long ago. So please pay a small amount of respect where you aren't sure circumstance.

[tamborine]

bloody hairdressers, they're all uptight prima donnas - I should know !

[Postdog]

Might have been easy to say, ruddy hard to make sense of though!

[pink-kittens]

Well the cheating won't come into it if neither makes a will
Where did the 70% come from? It's not as simple as that

[factor-fiction]

Sorry al, I got lost at "Guys got s good me for you here got my who will be mother and father in law ".

Are you saying your future parents in law are always bickering and you are fed up of it. I am not sure there is much you can do- you will probably be accused of interfering if you try. Can't you just keep away from them completely- maybe you and your future wife should move away.

[rowanwitch]

Could you explain your problem a little more clearly... punctuation might be helpful.

[boxtops]

She thought he cheated
He didn't but she went out and cheated too
she moved out

If they divorce, who will pay for what?

Is that it, alperchino?

They need a solicitor, how old is the daughter, is she still in school?

It all depends on how much each of them paid into the marriage, acquiring the house, etc.

What relationship are all these people to you?

[daffy654]

I think he means that his future in laws are getting divorced and the mother in law to be is insisting she is entitled to 70% of house/funds etc.

[EDDIE51]

Pink kittens we are talking divorce settlements not wills .
Anyway, now divorce is settled on a 'no fault' basis, who was to blame does not come into the picture, it is settled acording to each parteners needs and income nothing else.

[alperchino]

Boxtops your bang on, sorry guys was late last night, the daughter isn't in school no, and they are to be my mother and father in law,I think it's right to stay out the way, they just involve me, and it's highly annoying, the mother in law just says she will get everything that my father in law has and has earnt, that was all just sick of them involving me when I know nothing, cheers guys

[EDDIE51]

As I said when a couple divorce the court will look at the entire situation and arrange the financial settlement. Your Father in law needs to get a lawyer and make sure the mother in laws earnings are taken into account, I get the idea that she will claim to have no income so as to get a bigger share of the money.
Her 'cash in hand' money will need to be accessed and added to the total. She may well be avoiding tax and national insurance as well so once the court start looking at the couples finances she could have a large tax bill to pay.

[woofgang]

Knowing nothing is a good safe place for you to be. Stay well out of it.