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Yes, I was afraid you were going to say that.
I posted this question on another forum like this and have had a similar opinion.
I posted that out of principal (and intense anger) that I would rather pay a lawyer twice the amount I would have paid to settle if I knew I would win, than let the nephew walk away with anything.
I haven't had an easy life, and I am sure if they took my circumstances into consideration I would win, but they don't do they.
I was very fair to this guy, I told him he could stay in the house while everything was being sorted as long as he took care of his bills - I didn't charge him a penny. It has been almost a year since my Father died, and not once has this nephew mentioned anything about claiming the house. Instead I have had text messages stating that the house would be mine, and more recently a query as to whether he could purchase the property. If none of this is taken into account I cannot see any justice in the legal system and feel this nephew has taken advantage and got me right where he wants me.
I know my Father didn't write a will as he wouldn't have wanted to upset the family by leaving it all to me, so he put it in the hands of the law. He wasn't able to give me the start in life I needed as he wasn't around, so I feel this was his way of making it up to me on his death and now someone is trying to take some of it away. I'm sure even though none of this information may help you, someone can understand how I feel?