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Thank you everyone for your replies. I have to say i have found the OPG very unhelpful. I fully explained the situation everytime i rang, one time was because i had read about the Court of protection and i needed clarification. I was assured that epa was the way to go and that i should put a note that the donor was mentally incapable, of which i did. The OPG are in serious need of customer service and in particular that they mustn't assume that everyone that rings, knows what they are talking about. Anyway i have it confirmed that it is the "deputyship" that we require. After two months of the wrong forms sitting in the wrong office with no communication from the OPG, i now have to start again!! :(