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Perhaps my original post come over wrong. Firstly, I love my Dad dearly and whatever it may appear like I am NOT interested in financial gain. I know my Dad made out the will so things would go smoothly when he passes away, it was not to save any argueing as he believes there will be none. But, my sister is very money minded and has played some dirty tricks before and I don't trust her on this. I was disgusted to find out a short time ago that my sister had even discussed renting out the house after he has passed away. My Dad said that was up to us. My Dad told me this and told me to fight that if I didn't want that to happen. It is only since my sister has planned to move in with him after her own financial difficulties that I have started to think something is not right. It is NOT the case that I am plotting to get my hands on his hard earned money or possessions, it's more a case of trying to ensure that the outcome will be fair, and that means respecting my Dad's will. Personally, I would rather my Dad change his will and leave everything to charity. And that's not a case of biting off my nose to spite my face. Money is not important to me but fairness is and in spite of what some replies have said, I am not waiting for my Dad to pass away, I am just wanting my sister to respect my Dad's wishes, as being fair and honest is one of my Dad's greatest strengths. I've seen others jockeying for position when parents are old and it sickens me. I hope this puts me in a better light and explains why I'm concerned.