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im not a 100% sure, but if im to guess by the fact iv known him for years and years
he is an alcohlic and smokes pot daily
i dont do any of that at all
after many years of knwoing him, i started to worry about his health, and didnt wanna turn my back on him, so i used to tell him to stop cause its causing you to go down hill
at first i was just saying it calmly, then as the months went by i started to ask him to come to teh gym and train, then later on i started to get angry with him, thinking that would work
because most of the time day and night he drinks and smokes, he is very vindictive when drunk and remembers those things and starts to get angry and shout alot
there were times when he was drunk he would try and be pyhiscal with me because i would shout at him to stop. Somehow he took those moments as though i was attacking him
there were time when he got phsyical and i had to be physical with him and pin him down so he could calm down.. for years and years when he is drunk he would say things like, you f-ING C__T attacking me.
also on one occasion i had to call the police because i found out he was giving kids drugs. I dont know the kids and if they were from the area
but i told him in an aggressive manner to stop that crap, or i would calll the cops cause i dont stand for that
He would just laugh, so i told the police, but they didn't wanna hear it
so i put warning letters around the neighbors homes for them to watch out, that he was giving drugs to kids
i think he has always had that hatred in his mind for me because of those times
i stopped talking to him for a long time, but because i bump into him alot in the area, one day he seemed fine and wasnt drinking, so i spoke to him and he seemed to understand that was wrong... i thought you changed
so i kept staying friends with him... but that didnt last long
he just started drinking and taking drugs even more. and his behaviour went back to the start again, been very vindictive and angry and always bringing old things up again
anyway, to make this shorter, to be vindictive with me he would call me on my cell and ask me to come around, when i did he would look out the window, close it back and pretend he wasnt in
so i called him a couple of times and left a voice mail saying things like" dont f-ing make me waste my time coming to your home and not answering or letting me in.. dont make me waste my money traveling here for this, or i will punch you up if i ever see you
to be honest with you, i think thats the thing he wanted to hear so he could claim i hit him one day and pull out all the voice mails
but like i say, who knows why, im not him, so i can only go by what i think it is
police asked me do you think he was drunk when he made this claim
I said why ask me, your the one who interviewed him
thats all realy
have a good evening, im about to eat