Hi, just notify the Court that you are representing yourself. The Judge has to be very careful in the way he handles the case and will NOT allow your ex's solicitor to take advantage of you. Just be very polite, do not get angry and if you feel you are getting things in a twist just apologise to the Judge, explain that you are not use to this sort of thing and that if you could you would pay for a Solicitor. Just be honest with what you tell them and polite at all times. Good Luck.