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Thanks to everyone for their replies. I have only been off work for 12 days and have officially resumed today. When I called my boss to advise, she said she was sorry and that she was horrified at having to do it, but that I would have to progress to an HR disciplinary meeting because my absence had exceeded 8 days (as is the NHS Glasgow policy). I told her that I was sure she couldn't do this as miscarriage is regarded as pregnancy related and therefore could not be counted against me. To be fair she said she hadn't checked but that I was probably correct. I'm trying to get hold of my HR dept to confirm I am right but so far I've been unable to get hold of the right person. The Equality Act 2010 says I am right. Tony, thanks for your reply but I can assure you that the NHS are not that caring when it comes to their employees. I have an excellent attendance record and yet they would not think twice about hauling me across the coals if that were to change.In my place of work there is no discretion shown. Everyone goes down the same sickness/absence route regardless of the reason for absence (although pregnancy is different). I have seen a colleague with cancer being treated abysmally!!
Anyway, thank to everyone's replies and I'm sorry for the rant. I'm just so annoyed at my boss for stressing me out even more by not checking her facts!
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